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DEAR DEIDRE: A STUPID fling with my girlfriend’s sister means I might be becoming a dad. She’s pregnant and says she wants to keep the baby.

I’m a man of 38 and my girlfriend is 29.

We moved in together earlier this year. I’m a photographer doing photos and videography for weddings and other events.

My girlfriend’s sister is 26.

She’s mad about social media and wants to become an influencer. She has built up quite a following.

She’s pretty, with a great body and not afraid to flaunt it.

Companies have started sending her products to review.

She asked whether I’d take some pictures, so we arranged a shoot one Tuesday morning when my girlfriend was at work.

She came over to my flat looking stunning. I got some great video of her reviewing some make-up and she also wanted me to shoot her in swimwear.

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She came out of the bathroom in a bikini and I could feel myself getting aroused.

I was encouraging her and assuring her she was natural, when she walked over to me and put her arms around my neck and began kissing me.

I was shocked but couldn’t resist and responded passionately. She told me she’d always fancied me and asked if I’d like to do some nude shots. I was so turned on and said, “Let’s forget the camera for now” then undid the strings of her bikini and we had the most amazing sex.

We’ve not had a repeat performance but she sent me a text last night saying she was pregnant.

I’ve told her to have a termination but she says a baby will help her influencer career.

I’m panicking.

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DEIDRE SAYS:  A baby isn’t a fashion accessory.

Encourage your girlfriend’s sister to think carefully about whether she is truly ready for the commitment.

But it is her decision whether she continues with the pregnancy, and if she does, you will have to support the child financially and preferably emotionally as well.

My support pack, Unplanned Pregnancy, will show you both where to find advice.

Your girlfriend did nothing wrong and two people she felt she could trust have betrayed her.

If her sister has the baby, it’s unlikely your relationship with your girlfriend will survive.

If she has the baby, then you can still be a good dad, regardless of the history between you, the baby’s mum and aunt.

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