No matter what I do my boyfriend only climaxes 50 per cent of the time

DEAR DEIDRE: MY new boyfriend only climaxes about 50 per cent of the time. I have never experienced this before in a man.

I’m 25 and my boyfriend is 28. We’ve been together for three months.


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I’ve tried all manner of things to spice it up and still he won’t climax.

I wonder whether this could be a medical problem or down to anxiety.

I don’t know what to say to him but it is becoming an issue for me.

I’m not sure if it’s worth carrying on as we’ve only been together a short time.

DEIDRE SAYS: If it’s a promising relationship then isn’t it worth exploring some more? He doesn’t have to climax for you to reach orgasm, after all.

Maybe he’ll start climaxing with you when the relationship is more established, but it’s also worth checking whether he views a lot of porn, as it can have a numbing effect.

My e-leaflet Man Who Can’t Climax? explains self-help.

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