I'm keen to try a threesome but my girlfriend won't agree

DEAR DEIDRE: I’m keen to try a threesome but my girlfriend won’t agree. How do I get her on board? 

It’s not that our sex life is boring – we regularly try new positions and play sex games. 


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But I’ve always wanted to have a threesome. There’s something about it that really turns me on. 

I’m 32, my girlfriend’s 29 and we’ve been together for two years. 

I asked her a year ago if she’d be up for introducing someone else, but she immediately shut me down. 

She said that if I wanted to have sex with another girl that badly, I should just break up with her. 

I don’t want to do that – I really see a future with her. 

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One night, while I was home alone, I was messaging girls on Tinder. I’ve found one that is also keen on the idea of a three-way.  

But how do I sell it to my girlfriend? 

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DEIDRE SAYS: Deidre says: While the idea of a threesome often seems like a lot of fun, it can lead to issues, such as jealousy. 

Plus, there’s a high chance it won’t live up to your fantasy.

Continuously pushing the idea on your girlfriend will only cause problems. 

What do you think a threesome will bring to your relationship? There may be other ways to fulfill this need – my support pack 50 Ways To Add Fun To Sex will help. 

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