I woke in the night to find my best friend pleasuring himself beside me

DEAR DEIDRE: I WOKE up in the night to find my best friend pleasuring himself and telling me he loved me.

We had a night out and got pretty drunk, my best friend, my boyfriend and me. I’m a gay guy of 27.


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We went back to my place and made up a bed on the floor with duvets and cushions to watch a film.

We all fell asleep. I was disturbed later and thought it was my boyfriend but it was my mate on the other side of me.

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I shut my eyes tight. The following morning my best friend asked me time and time again if I’d remembered anything.

I feel violated. It brought back memories of something that happened to me as a child – he knows I still get flashbacks of my uncle getting into my bed when I was a kid.

DEIDRE SAYS: Your friend knows he made a serious mistake that night and is clearly embarrassed about what he did.

He has seriously abused your trust and I would urge you to consider if you really want a friend like that in your life.

In the meantime, my support pack called Abused As A Child will show you where to find help in dealing with your childhood trauma.

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