I want to satisfy my girlfriend but I suffer from premature ejaculation

DEAR DEIDRE:  I’M 29 and have been suffering from premature ejaculation since I first started having sex when I was 16.

It’s started to make me feel frustrated and down, like there is something wrong with me.

I’ve been in a serious relationship for a year and my girlfriend, who is 28, says she doesn’t mind, but I don’t believe her.

I’ve tried everything to stop myself finishing too soon – planning our Tesco shop in my mind, imagining Boris Johnson nude – but in vain.

I want to be a normal man who can satisfy my girlfriend. It’s starting to make me not want sex. What can I do?

Get in touch with Deidre today

My team and I are working safely from home but we are here to help you as always.

Send an email to [email protected]

Every problem gets a personal reply, usually within 24 hours weekdays.

You can also send a private message on the DearDeidreOfficial Facebook page.

Follow me on Twitter @deardeidre.

DEIDRE SAYS: Sexual desire starts in your head, so the more you worry, the harder it is to find a solution.

Would you be surprised to know the average man lasts five minutes?

It’s good you are with an understanding partner.

Together you can build up how long you last.

Try not to avoid sex, that will store up even more trouble.

Take a look at my support pack, Want to Last Longer? and be reassured there are many men who don’t last long after penetration.

NEXT IN TODAY'S DEAR DEIDRE I slept with my ex even though I have a girlfriend and I feel so guilty

READ DEIDRE'S CLASSIC PHOTO CASEBOOK Guy has naughty chats over the internet while Tina's out

GOT a story? RING The Sun on 0207 782 4104 or WHATSAPP on 07423720250 or EMAIL [email protected]

Source: Read Full Article