I can't satisfy my girlfriend in bed and I am scared she will leave me

DEAR DEIDRE: AFTER sex, my partner is left wanting more – and I can’t blame her.

I am 32, she is 30 and we have been together for two years.


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I have suffered with premature ejaculation for as long as I can remember.

I so want to please my partner and give her the sex life she deserves. But it isn’t happening and I know she gets frustrated.

I really want to sort this out properly because I have pretty much given up on sex.

And I worry I will lose my partner to another guy – someone who can give her what she wants.

It is horrible for me to know how my partner feels.

It is starting to make me depressed.

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DEIDRE SAYS:  Premature ejaculation can be devastating for your self-confidence, while also being hugely frustrating and annoying for your partner too.

But there are a range of self-help techniques you can learn to stop it being a problem.

Just for now, take the emphasis off intercourse and explore all the other ways there are to give one another sexual pleasure and satisfaction.

My support pack Want To Last Longer will help.

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