My wife is too beautiful for me and I can't get an erection with her

I’m 40. My first wife cheated on me with a friend. My new wife is 30 and everyone says I’m punching above my weight.

As far as I know she is faithful but she does get a lot of attention from men.

Sometimes I feel like it’s only a matter of time before history repeats itself. I can get an erection by myself, just not with her which is when I really want one.

DEIDRE SAYS: If you can get an erection and climax on your own then this isn’t a physical thing.

More likely, this problem is due to your anxiety that you will be let down once again.

Explain to your wife that you feel insecure so she knows that this isn’t a lack of interest in her. My e-leaflet Solving Erection Problems explains self-help therapy.


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